for 55-year-old rick waines, life changed drastically after he was diagnosed with hiv. he watched his friends in the hemophilia community die one by one, describing it as, “there were the people who died last week, the people who were dying this week, and the ones who would die next week.” work didn’t seem to have much meaning anymore, so he quit his job as a photographer and has spent his life working with the hiv/aids community.
in 1996, highly active antiretroviral therapy became available in canada, improving and prolonging the lives of those with hiv/aids. but waines says surviving comes with mixed emotions.
“we were all stoked that at least a lot of the suffering was waning, but my uncle died and all of my pals with hemophilia died, save a handful,” says waines. “the gay men in my life had lost everyone they relied on for care and support and love. let’s just say it was no victory parade. we were all certainly grateful to have made it, but there was just a catastrophic amount of loss.”
waines is currently working on a play based on interviews from people who lived through the hiv/aids epidemic, which is set to hit the stage on december 1, 2022, world aids day. when asked what he wants people to understand about the tainted blood scandal, waines takes a minute before responding.