by: marian scott as an hiv-positive gay man, denis-martin chabot says the hardest part of dealing with the disease is the way other people react to it.
“the first stigma that you feel is when you tell someone that you’re hiv-positive,” said chabot, who is the development co-ordinator of maison plein coeur, a non-profit organization that supports people with hiv.
“i’d say half the time, maybe three-quarters of the time, if you’re meeting someone for a relationship, that person will change his mind,” he said.
spectacular advances in medical science have turned hiv from a deadly disease into a chronic condition — but, unfortunately, they haven’t erased its stigma, said sarah-amélie mercure, a physician and public health specialist with the regional health directorate.
for more than 90 per cent of people being treated for
hiv, medication controls the virus so well, it’s undetectable in their blood, she said.
“when they are on medication, they have the same life expectancy as anyone else in the general population,” she said.
“the really great news is that when the viral load is so low, people don’t transmit the infection anymore to sexual partners.”
but the estimated 10,000 people in montreal living with hiv are still subjected to shame and exclusion, mercure said.