brian also wants to reassure families of children who are diagnosed a bit older that there’s no time where it’s too late to learn. “it’s not like the door closes to learning, it’s just that there’s a rich opportunity for learning that happens early on.”
develop a structured routine
change can be hard on anybody. people feel more grounded by familiarity, routine and knowing what to expect. change can be especially upsetting for people on the spectrum because it feels new and unpredictable, which can create anxiety.
maureen bennie, a calgary mom of two autistic adults in their 20s, created the autism awareness centre in 2003 to help with peer-to-peer guidance and support for individuals with asd and their families. she’s written several books and blogs on the centre website, including the importance of routine and steps to prepare individuals for changes in routine to help manage transitions.
use visual strategies to illustrate a daily schedule, for example, where you can highlight any changes that are happening that day,
she writes.
visual aids can be more effective and less stressful than giving a verbal explanation or instructions. “visual supports are the cornerstone of communication. they provide structure, routine, consistency and predictability. when a person understands the expectations and knows what to do, they are more independent and confident,” bennie notes.