connect with loved ones online
whether it’s a facetime or skype call with your family, a zoom meeting with your colleagues, or brunch over google hangouts with your friends, technology offers alternate ways to maintain connection with others.
“it’s not the same as being together in person, but it’s a lot better than nothing,” says
kate mulligan
, associate professor at the university of toronto’s dalla lana school of public health. “it is important to try to continue to stay in touch with loved ones because it’s vital for human life.”
“i’ve heard someone say this is like the equivalent of a protein bar instead of a home-cooked meal; it’s not the same, but it will get us through,” she says.
it’s especially important to to ask for help if you need it, instead of waiting for others to reach out to you first.
“this is not not the time to be too proud to let people know if you’re struggling. it’s very stressful and it’s normal to feel anxious or stressed or angry or powerless,” she says. “the thing that gets you through this without long-term post-traumatic stress or depression is a good social network.”
volunteer to help strangers
volunteering is another way to fill the void that self-isolation has placed in our lives. mulligan says
helping out
by doing things like delivering groceries, or checking on vulnerable people who are perhaps more isolated than you,
not only helps you connect socially, but can also help you feel better about living in such uncertain times.