ultimately, be yourself — but at the same time, keep some things to yourself, especially in the early days.
“mention hobbies or values, but avoid writing a laundry list of requirements for a potential partner — because that can feel off-putting,” she noted.
“it’s best to skip negativity, like stating what you don’t want in a partner, as it sets a bad tone.”
say cheese without being cheesy
have a good variety in there, “showing yourself doing something you enjoy as it helps create conversation starters,” adams suggested.
avoid too many selfies and try one that shows the full you (not in that way, naughty), so people have a better idea of your general appearance beyond just your face.
also, drop the filters and “aim for natural, well-lit pictures.”
“the first picture should be clear and friendly — ideally smiling and looking approachable,” adams said, while group photos, especially as the main image, should be avoided since it forces people to have to guess who you are.
she also recommended that guys ditch the fishing shots: “they tend to be polarizing!”
it’s not just about making a good first impression, but also wanting a person to stick around.
“when answering dating prompts, be specific, share genuine passions and interests,” adams suggested.