stress, anxiety, depression, light-emitting smartphones and laptops, underlying medical problems, the loss of a loved one, a break-up, hormones changes around menopause — all can contribute to problems sleeping. but a problem doesn’t qualify as a disorder unless, once triggered, it keeps rolling along. “and that’s because of other factors that have to do with behaviours and ways of thinking that interfere with the body’s ability to sleep on a regular basis,” davidson said.
that includes a racing mind, what espie has called the “primary enemy of sleep.” the worst thing is trying too hard to get to sleep. “the good sleeper sleeps just as he or she walks or talks — without even thinking about it,” espie wrote in a paper proposing that insomnia is not so much about being hyperaroused but a failure to de-arouse. he said it may be more helpful to see insomnia as some form of a “maladaptive condition, where the setting conditions for sleep are impaired.”
going to bed too early or tossing and turning in bed when you can’t sleep perpetuates insomnia because it counteracts the biological drive for sleep, davidson said. the pressure to sleep needs to be high for people to feel sleepy.
“but people go to bed early thinking they’ll make up for lost sleep when, in fact, that backfires,” davidson said. “they have more trouble falling asleep, they link the bed with not sleeping and there’s a whole circular thing that gets started.”