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there are a ton of theories on why some people go toe-tally bonkers for feet and most are rooted in early childhood experiences and classical conditioning, which may have triggered the brain to create a lasting sexual association to feet. but as some experts point out, atypical sexual interests, called paraphilias, might not be linked to a specific event or situation.
“the current evidence suggests paraphilias result from differences in the brain and that the roots of those differences occur before birth,” says dr. james cantor, psychologist and director of the toronto sexuality centre . “there is no evidence to suggest that a person develops paraphilias over the course of life.”
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hot feet , it sounds like you and your partner have great sexual chemistry and that you’re on the same page most of the time. if your husband has a thing for feet, there’s a way to create space for it without overwhelming your sex life. if you’re willing to step outside of your comfort zone and keep an open mind, you can try ease into the foot thing, perhaps through porn and foreplay. and if you add some of your own desires into the mix, it might just refresh your connection with your husband and spice up the sex repertoire.
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