in addition to being a creative outlet, gaudet’s entrance into the world of drag also opened up a supportive community.
“for people who have been newly diagnosed or don’t have family to support them, the drag scene is a safe space,” adds gaudet, whose stage name is rosacea cheeks. he also decided to share his status publicly, talking about his diagnosis on social media and letting people know that he’s willing to lend anyone a helping hand, should they need it.
he says he is grateful he had his best friend to lean on upon getting the news. “part of my healing after the first year was to put myself out there and be public about it, letting people know i’m someone they can message if they’re having a scare or need someone to talk to. i can’t imagine being alone, receiving this news. having that community was really important to me.”
tackling stigma
despite common misconceptions of risk, people of any age, sex, gender, sexual orientation, race or ethnic origin can be affected by hiv. however, hiv disproportionately affects marginalized communities across canada — including men who have sex with men (msm) and people of colour — due to health inequities and other risk factors.
another canadian, muluba habanyama, was born with hiv and has lived with it for 31 years. she recalls how, when she was just seven years old, a former mentor of hers made her eat off paper plates rather than reuseable dishes because of the misconception that hiv can be spread via saliva. as the director of communications and programs for the ontario aids network, habanyama says eliminating the stigma and the discrimination that people with hiv experience is vital.