“it has been a definite change to become mike’s caregiver, but i don’t think there’s anyone else who’s better equipped to help meet his specific needs and to understand him,” says carmen.
mike says having carmen as his caregiver is fantastic, but knows she can’t do it on her own. mike also has an amazing team that supports him, from extended family and friends to personal support workers, physiotherapists, occupational therapists, patient support groups, neurologists, nutritionists, speech language pathologists, respirologists, and an adaptive technology team. among the extended care team, carmen is the driver that keeps the bus rolling along smoothly.
“there’s more than just the physical caregiving,” carmen says. “it’s planning and organizing and coordinating to keep everything running smoothly – appointments, supplies, and just having all that we need. i’m always kind of on duty.”
despite the challenges of living with als, the cels are positive and upbeat. they smile and joke around while sharing their story, and emphasize the importance of seizing the day and embracing life. thanks to mike’s early diagnosis and treatment, he and carmen have been able to travel extensively to see and experience the world, while they can.