machado: would you keep a scary diagnosis a secret?
someone managing a health condition should never be made to feel responsible for the opinions, perceptions and worries of others, and yet, they are.
machado: sharing stories come at a cost, but it's worth it
stories, especially the ones about fear, loss, trauma, bring the teller back to their dark days, and remind the listener of theirs. but they also have tremendous healing power.
machado: the identity crisis that happens with a serious diagnosis
in the process of bridging the gap between who you are before the diagnosis and the person your experience molds you into, those who are happiest seem to be the ones who land somewhere near the middle.