finding the right balance
it’s an approach that finley hurst, a 17-year-old high school student, would likely appreciate. hurst, like most of her friends, got her first phone when she was around 12. she says her school briefly tried to ban the devices when she was in grade 10 but the experiment quickly fell apart. “they still don’t want you on your phone, obviously, but they won’t take it away,” she says. “so, the teachers are competing against phones. sometimes, they’ll just give up because no one is listening. i feel bad for them.”
hurst, who is heading to university in the fall, says she has, at times, felt the downside of the ubiquitous digital devices. “when i’m on my phone too much, i’ll get grumpy when i’m off it,” she says. “i’m like, ‘oh, this like sucks. i’d rather be on my phone.’ it got to the point where i always wanted to be on my phone. i’m better now.”
one of the biggest issues hurst sees with excessive screentime is how quickly kids are growing up. “i’ll see 10-year-olds that look my age,” she says. “they’ll be doing their makeup and it’s very jarring to see. they’re talking about things that i would be talking about and it’s all because of what they see on social media.”
but she also finds a lot of positives online and enjoys the way these experiences can bring her closer to her sister. “i get a lot of baking content in my feed,” she says. “it really inspires me to get up and go to the kitchen. my sister saw a tiktok recently and said she really wanted to make these cookies and it made her so happy. i feel like that’s like a really big part of it, too.”