studies have found people who continue on the path of loneliness wind up living shorter lives and are at increased risk of fatal conditions such as heart disease, depression, anxiety and dementia. this is also a strong predictor of premature mortality.
it turns out the internet is to blame in the 21st century, specifically social media. social media is a window for us to see other people doing things we would like to be doing and being with people we’d all like to be with. but the reality is, sometimes this just makes people feel badly about themselves and their own relationships, or lack thereof.
the rise of the one person household is one of the most significant social changes in the history of our species. this trend began in the late 1950s where rising affluence correlated to more people living alone.
twenty-eight per cent of all united states households are single households. in 1950, that number was nine per cent.
but alone-ness does not equate to loneliness.
in many cases, those living with other people may also experience loneliness. “social confidants” are the key, and much different than simply living in a shared space. this factor alone sheds light on the difference between aloneness and loneliness.