with all that engagement, donsky has taken to calling tiktok her full-time job. outside of knowing she’s hit the right tone, she loves the space for the reason many other people do: it’s the perfectly imperfect antidote to years of careful instagram curation.
“tiktok allows me to embrace creativity, and be funny and not take myself too seriously,” she says. “i think that’s it too, because menopause is so rough for so many of us, right? i took myself seriously for so long, and i find that tiktok allows me to go outside of my comfort zone.”
donsky was one of the creators featured over the summer in the first
#menopausetok campaign
, organized by new york city’s pix11 evening news anchor tamsen fadal.
fadal just joined tiktok in february and had no idea where it would take her, but then she hit over a million views with an early video. rather than covering menopause, she soon found herself living the story, speaking openly about everything from her fears to her symptoms to going through a divorce. she’s planning another #menopausetok and will keep making videos, too, sharing everything that’s helped her along the way.
“i want other women to feel safe to talk and be open about a time when transition can be scary,” she says. “but it’s also a time to thrive. i got married in the middle of my menopause journey, and there is so much more to come.”
when is it time to monetize your platform?
of course once you have enough followers, the next natural thing to do is monetize your platform. one of the tiktok personalities featured in fadal’s campaign, barbados-based
carol king
, offers an ebook and one-on-one coaching. donsky and her business partner are launching a line of supplements, morphus. and the biggest tiktok menopause success of all so far may well be texas-based ob-gyn and culinary medicine specialist
dr. mary claire haver
. since joining at the urging of her daughters, she’s blown up to 1.8 million followers, becoming tiktok’s unofficial menopause expert. she has also opened a private clinic — all of which has helped to propel her forthcoming diet book to the
no. 1 spot
on amazon.